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Hello , friends. Today in this particular module. we will talk abou Soft Skills - Self Confidence_good_things

                               

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 Well , this is such an amazing topic , and I genuinely love and passionately love to teach on this particular topic of self-confidence .

                     

Let us see what is there in store for us today . We will talk about what exactly is sort of confidence , all about the definition of self-confidence . Also talking about what are certain reasons why people are not confident . We will also talk about six ways in which you can become or rather train yourself to become more self-confident benefits of self-confidence . Why people with self-confidence succeed . I am ready to explain this particular module. So let's get started right away .

So friends, what is the word confidence really ? Self means your self and confidence means to be really amazingly sure of one's ability to do things . Well , here is what self-confidence is . The concept of self-confidence is commonly used as a self assurance in one's personal judgment ability . Power exec Drub . If there is a particular activity that you are very , very fond of doing and you feel that you have absolutely mastered the art of doing it in the right manner , it means that you are very self confident about that particular thing .

Nowadays , a lot of people suffer from a low self-esteem . Well , self esteem and self confidence are too diverse subjects . However , they are closely linked together . And hence , I would just like to add to your saying that self esteem is completely a different subject altogether . And we will talk about that in one of our modules . So what is self-confidence ? Self-confidence is a superpower . 

Once you begin to believe in yourself, magic begins to work

                

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And I'm sure you all have experienced this in one time on another in your life , but in you have really felt self-confidence in yourself .

And because of which you really feel miracles and magic starts happening , you feel like you are the king or the queen of the world . Right . So that is the power of believing in yourself and being really confident of yourself . Let's take a look at certain reasons why people are not confident in their own abilities . Here's what it is like when you're trying to be somebody that you are not . When you tried to copy or eat somebody , you really become fake .

And that is something which doesn't make you a self-confident person .

Criticism affects you when you get really affected by any feedback , which is a negative feedback coming your way . And you tried to become a little defensive on that feedback . 

When there is a lack of confidence, the person takes it in a negative way.

 You don't have that particular skill affected by painful past experiences because of which you don't really become confident in yourself , because you are still hounded by your past experiences . You don't have supportive people around when your network of friends , colleagues and family members do not support you is when you feel a lack of self confidence in your own abilities .

Friends . Now let's take a look at how can you become more self-confidence ? Well , you can train yourself to become a more self-confident individual . Here are certain reasons . The first one being visualize yourself as you want to be . Well , try to close your eyes right now while you're hearing to this particular , would you try to close your eyes and try to imagine and visualize yourself physically , mentally , emotionally on the kind of person you really want to become ?

And that is a power in itself . It's a miracle . Trust me when I say that because I have experienced it myself . When you visualize yourself as the person you want to be , really , you feel that the entire universe helps you to make it come true . The second one is a form yourself . Well , there is a power in the positive affirmation . And if you have read the book called The Secret , I am sure you will understand it better when you start believing in yourself .

In terms of positively affirmation , you know , doing certain affirmations for yourself , like I am improving each day . This is a positive mantra that you keep telling yourself , telling us something like , I am blessed and grateful when you continues to repeat positive affirmations to yourself . That is the power in which the magic starts happening . These things start becoming more and more true because you start repeating yourself . These particular things . The thought is do one thing that scares you every day .

The idea is to get out of your comfort zone and get out of your fear zone , get into a zone which makes you uncomfortable . So do something like anything which you get scared off . Initially , it could be bungee jumping or it could be hiking or it could be swimming . If you are afraid of water . Do that one thing every day which gets you out of that scary or fear zone . For this question , your inner critic . Well , human beings are the best critic of themselves .

So try to personalize it yourself by spending time with yourself during an introspection period and try to be your best critic . The next one is set yourself up to win . Remove the word I count from your dictionary . Think positively that you can and you will do something . And trust me . Magic starts to happen when you do that . So try to set yourself up for only winning . Do not think about losing . Think about winning . Because whatever you put your mind to .

That happens . The sixth one is . Help someone else . Well , this there are so many people in this world that need help . And if you are compassionate and kind enough to do things for yourself . Good . Start working your way . And in fact , these good karmas do more good to you than to the other person . So if you go out and help somebody today , trust me , you will feel Ray Ray self-confident about yourself . It is just positive energy .

Well , let's look at what are certain benefits of being self-confident . And here they are being your best under stress . Whenever you are stressed out and you're self-confident . Trust me , your stress will just melt away . You are also able to influence others as a self-confident person . You suddenly become very magnetic personality kind of person . And people are attracted to you . And people are influenced by what you see and what you do . Having leadership presence as well as having a more positive attitude .

These are certain benefits of being self-confident . Let's take at some more benefits . You also feel valued when you value yourself . You are turning out to be more and more self-confident . You also turn out to be more beautiful , more happier . And there is a signs regarding this . If you feel self-confidence , you genuinely feel more happier and more beautiful as well as more handsome having greater freedom . You feel that you are in control of your destiny rather than the destiny being in control of you .

So hence this gives you greater freedom to exercise your powers .

Well , there's a very beautiful quotation on self-confidence . And here it is . You never really know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice that you have . And hence , it becomes important that if you want to be self-confident , you need to trust in your own instincts . Why people with confidence succeed . Well , again , let's understand people who are confident . How is it related to success ? They know the strengths and weaknesses . They are people who live in the present moment .

They don't think about the past . They don't think about the future . They are very , very balanced in thinking only of the present moment . They stop measuring success . Well , what is success ? Any which is you don't go on striving for success without living the life of being a successful person . So they stop chasing success . They live in the present and they are happy being in that present moment . Also , as I mentioned , they work on happiness .

They work on relationships rather than going after the rotaries of becoming more and more richer , for example . And they also set a lot of goals for themselves , which will help them to be confident in themselves . Well , again , a quotation which says you can either be your own worst enemy or your own biggest cheerleader , what it's gonna be . So for you , this means whether you can choose to keep on complaining about things all you stand up being a cheerleader , that choice ultimately is yours and yours alone .

Well , I would like to conclude this particular module by seeing that self-confidence is only an umbrella term for a lot of things emotionally constrained .

So try to personalize it yourself by spending time with yourself during an introspection period and try to be your best critic . The next one is set yourself up to win . Remove the word I count from your dictionary . Think positively that you can and you will do something . And trust me . Magic starts to happen when you do that . So try to set yourself up for only winning . Do not think about losing . Think about winning . Because whatever you put your mind to .

That happens . The sixth one is . Help someone else . Well , this there are so many people in this world that need help . And if you are compassionate and kind enough to do things for yourself . Good . Start working your way . And in fact , these good karmas do more good to you than to the other person . So if you go out and help somebody today , trust me , you will feel Ray Ray self-confident about yourself . It is just positive energy .

Well , let's look at what are certain benefits of being self-confident . And here they are being your best under stress . Whenever you are stressed out and you're self-confident . Trust me , your stress will just melt away . You are also able to influence others as a self-confident person . You suddenly become very magnetic personality kind of person . And people are attracted to you . And people are influenced by what you see and what you do . Having leadership presence as well as having a more positive attitude .

These are certain benefits of being self-confident . Let's take at some more benefits . You also feel valued when you value yourself . You are turning out to be more and more self-confident . You also turn out to be more beautiful , more happier . And there is a signs regarding this . If you feel self-confidence , you genuinely feel more happier and more beautiful as well as more handsome having greater freedom . You feel that you are in control of your destiny rather than the destiny being in control of you .

So hence this gives you greater freedom to exercise your powers .

Well , there's a very beautiful quotation on self-confidence . And here it is . You never really know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice that you have . And hence , it becomes important that if you want to be self-confident , you need to trust in your own instincts . Why people with confidence succeed . Well , again , let's understand people who are confident . How is it related to success ? They know the strengths and weaknesses . They are people who live in the present moment .

They don't think about the past . They don't think about the future . They are very , very balanced in thinking only of the present moment . They stop measuring success . Well , what is success ? Any which is you don't go on striving for success without living the life of being a successful person . So they stop chasing success . They live in the present and they are happy being in that present moment . Also , as I mentioned , they work on happiness .

They work on relationships rather than going after the rotaries of becoming more and more richer , for example . And they also set a lot of goals for themselves , which will help them to be confident in themselves . Well , again , a quotation which says you can either be your own worst enemy or your own biggest cheerleader , what it's gonna be . So for you , this means whether you can choose to keep on complaining about things all you stand up being a cheerleader , that choice ultimately is yours and yours alone .

Well , I would like to conclude this particular module by seeing that self-confidence is only an umbrella term for a lot of things emotionally constrained .